Topic 2.6 Canine Social Signals, Calming Behaviours and Conflict Avoidance

Dogs are highly skilled social communicators. Much of their communication is designed not only to express emotional states but also to maintain relationships, avoid conflict and create predictable interactions with others.

As social animals, dogs have evolved a range of behaviours that allow them to communicate intentions and negotiate interactions. These behaviours help dogs determine whether another individual is safe, whether interaction is appropriate and whether they need to increase or decrease distance.

Many canine communication signals are subtle and may be overlooked by humans. Dogs often attempt to resolve uncertainty or discomfort through lower-level signals before progressing to more obvious behaviours.

For example, a dog may initially communicate discomfort by:

  • turning its head away,
  • moving away,
  • sniffing,
  • blinking,
  • slowing movement.

If these signals are ignored, the dog may escalate communication through:

  • freezing,
  • growling,
  • barking,
  • snapping.

Understanding these social signals is essential for preventing misunderstandings and supporting positive human–dog interactions.

A key principle of canine communication is:

Dogs often attempt to communicate before they escalate.

Understanding Social Communication in Dogs

Social communication allows dogs to:

  • establish relationships,
  • negotiate space,
  • prevent unnecessary conflict,
  • express preferences,
  • communicate emotional states.

Dogs are not simply reacting to the world around them. They are actively communicating with humans, other dogs and animals.

Social communication may involve:

  • approaching,
  • withdrawing,
  • changing body position,
  • altering movement,
  • using facial expressions,
  • vocalising,
  • scent communication.

These signals are often used together.

A dog deciding whether to approach another dog may assess:

  • body posture,
  • movement,
  • facial expression,
  • scent,
  • previous experiences.

Dogs are constantly gathering information and adjusting their behaviour accordingly.

Distance as Communication

One of the most important concepts in canine communication is the use of distance.

Dogs communicate through their ability to:

  • increase distance,
  • decrease distance,
  • maintain distance.

Distance can communicate emotional information.

A dog moving closer may indicate:

  • curiosity,
  • confidence,
  • social interest.

A dog moving away may indicate:

  • uncertainty,
  • discomfort,
  • fear,
  • desire for space.

Humans sometimes interpret movement away as refusal, stubbornness or poor behaviour. However, moving away is often an appropriate communication strategy.

Respecting distance allows dogs to feel safer and reduces the likelihood of escalation.

Distance-Increasing Behaviours

Distance-increasing behaviours are behaviours used by dogs to create more space between themselves and something they find uncomfortable.

Examples may include:

  • moving away,
  • turning away,
  • hiding,
  • avoiding eye contact,
  • freezing,
  • barking,
  • growling,
  • lunging.

These behaviours are often misunderstood because humans focus on the visible response rather than the reason behind it.

For example, a dog barking at another dog may not be trying to “start a fight”. The dog may be attempting to create distance because it feels uncertain or threatened.

Understanding this changes how behaviour is addressed.

Instead of asking:

“Why is this dog behaving badly?”

a more useful question is:

“What is this dog trying to achieve through this behaviour?”

Distance-Reducing Behaviours

Dogs may also use behaviours designed to reduce distance and encourage interaction.

These may include:

  • approaching slowly,
  • offering a play bow,
  • relaxed movement,
  • seeking proximity,
  • gentle investigation.

However, approach does not always mean a dog wants physical interaction.

A dog may approach because it is:

  • curious,
  • gathering information,
  • uncertain,
  • seeking reassurance.

The dog’s ongoing body language should always be observed.

Calming and Conflict-Avoidance Behaviours

Dogs often use behaviours that help reduce tension during social interactions.

These are sometimes referred to as calming signals or conflict-avoidance behaviours.

They may communicate:

  • “I am not a threat.”
  • “I am unsure.”
  • “I would like to reduce pressure.”
  • “I want to avoid conflict.”

Examples include:

  • turning the head away,
  • blinking,
  • moving slowly,
  • sniffing,
  • changing direction,
  • lowering body posture.

These behaviours are particularly important because they often occur before more obvious signs of distress.

Turning Away

Turning away is a common canine communication signal.

A dog may turn its head or body away when:

  • uncertain,
  • uncomfortable,
  • attempting to reduce social pressure.

For example, a dog approached by an unfamiliar person may turn away rather than engage.

This should not automatically be interpreted as rejection or lack of friendliness.

The dog may simply be communicating a preference for space.

Blinking and Softening the Eyes

Dogs may use changes in eye behaviour during social interactions.

Slow blinking or softening of the eyes may occur during:

  • relaxed interaction,
  • uncertainty,
  • attempts to appear non-threatening.

However, eye behaviour should always be considered alongside other signals.

Sniffing as a Social Behaviour

Sniffing is not only an environmental exploration behaviour. It can also function as social communication.

Dogs may sniff when:

  • greeting another dog,
  • approaching a new situation,
  • feeling uncertain.

Sniffing may allow a dog to gather information while reducing direct social pressure.

For example, a dog approaching another dog in a curved path while sniffing may be communicating differently from a dog approaching directly with a stiff posture.

Curved Approaches Versus Direct Approaches

Dogs often use movement patterns to communicate social intentions.

A curved approach is generally less socially intense than a direct approach.

Direct approaches may sometimes be perceived as:

  • confrontational,
  • overwhelming,
  • intrusive.

Dogs may naturally approach unfamiliar individuals through:

  • arcs,
  • indirect movement,
  • pauses.

Humans can support positive interactions by allowing dogs appropriate time and space to communicate naturally.

Appeasement Behaviours

Appeasement behaviours are behaviours that reduce social tension and communicate peaceful intentions.

Examples may include:

  • lowering the body,
  • avoiding direct gaze,
  • licking lips,
  • moving slowly,
  • making the body appear smaller.

These behaviours may occur when a dog is attempting to avoid conflict.

However, appeasement should not be confused with enjoyment.

A dog appearing submissive or compliant may still be uncomfortable.

Freeze, Flight, Fight and Fawn Responses

When dogs experience stress, fear or a perceived threat, they may respond through a range of coping strategies. These responses are often described as the four primary stress responses: freeze, flight, fight and fawn.

These responses are not deliberate choices made by the dog. They are automatic behavioural and physiological responses that occur when the dog is attempting to manage a situation it perceives as challenging, threatening or overwhelming.

Understanding these responses is important because some behaviours that humans interpret as “good behaviour”, compliance or calmness may actually represent a stress response.

A dog’s response will depend on factors including:

  • genetics,
  • temperament,
  • previous experiences,
  • socialisation,
  • relationship with the person involved,
  • perceived ability to escape or control the situation.

Freeze Response

The freeze response occurs when a dog becomes extremely still in response to stress, uncertainty or fear.

Freezing is an attempt by the nervous system to manage a situation by reducing movement and avoiding further escalation.

A freezing dog may appear:

  • quiet,
  • calm,
  • still,
  • compliant.

However, stillness does not always indicate comfort.

A dog that freezes may be communicating:

  • uncertainty,
  • fear,
  • discomfort,
  • feeling trapped,
  • inability to cope.

Examples may include:

  • a dog becoming motionless during handling,
  • a dog freezing when approached by an unfamiliar person,
  • a dog becoming still when another animal enters its space.

Humans often misinterpret freezing as acceptance because the dog is not actively resisting. However, a frozen dog may actually be experiencing significant emotional pressure.

Recognising freezing is important because continuing interaction may push the dog towards more obvious defensive behaviours.

Flight Response

The flight response involves attempting to increase distance from something perceived as threatening, uncomfortable or overwhelming.

This is often one of the safest coping strategies available to a dog because it allows the animal to avoid conflict.

Flight behaviours may include:

  • moving away,
  • hiding,
  • escaping,
  • avoiding interaction,
  • retreating behind a person,
  • leaving an area.

A dog attempting to move away is communicating valuable information.

For example:

A dog walking away from an unfamiliar person may not be being unfriendly. It may be communicating that it does not want interaction.

A dog avoiding another dog may not lack social skills. It may be appropriately managing its own comfort level.

Allowing dogs opportunities to create distance is an important aspect of welfare and safety.

Fight Response

The fight response occurs when a dog feels unable to escape, when previous communication has been ineffective or when the dog believes defensive action is necessary.

Fight responses may include:

  • growling,
  • barking,
  • snapping,
  • lunging,
  • biting.

These behaviours are often misunderstood as evidence that a dog is aggressive or dangerous. However, they are behaviours occurring within a specific emotional and environmental context.

A dog displaying a fight response is often communicating:

  • “I need space.”
  • “This situation is too much.”
  • “I do not feel safe.”

Aggressive behaviour should therefore be understood as communication rather than a personality characteristic.

Assessment should consider:

  • what triggered the behaviour,
  • what signals occurred beforehand,
  • whether the dog attempted avoidance,
  • whether health issues may contribute.

Fawn Response

The fawn response involves attempting to reduce conflict by becoming highly compliant, appeasing or socially accommodating.

This response is particularly important because it is often misunderstood as confidence, obedience or enjoyment.

A dog experiencing a fawn response may attempt to maintain safety by:

  • seeking approval,
  • avoiding disagreement,
  • becoming unusually submissive,
  • allowing unwanted interaction,
  • appearing excessively “well behaved”.

Examples may include:

  • a dog becoming very still and allowing handling it does not enjoy,
  • a dog repeatedly seeking reassurance from a person while appearing uncomfortable,
  • a dog displaying exaggerated submissive behaviours to avoid conflict.

A fawn response may occur when a dog has learned that compliance is the safest option in a stressful situation.

Importantly:

A dog that tolerates something is not necessarily a dog that enjoys something.

This distinction is critical when interpreting interactions such as:

  • forced greetings,
  • handling,
  • restraint,
  • unwanted touching,
  • interactions with unfamiliar people.

A dog appearing calm and cooperative may still require support if the behaviour reflects emotional discomfort.

The Importance of Recognising All Four Responses

Humans often recognise only obvious distress responses such as barking, growling or attempting to escape. However, dogs may communicate discomfort in much quieter ways.

A dog may respond to stress by:

  • freezing and becoming still,
  • fleeing and creating distance,
  • fighting and communicating defensively,
  • fawning and attempting to appease.

None of these responses indicate that the dog is “bad”.

They indicate that the dog is attempting to cope with its environment.

Understanding these responses allows humans to:

  • recognise early signs of distress,
  • reduce unnecessary pressure,
  • avoid forcing interactions,
  • provide appropriate support,
  • improve safety.

Recognising Conflict Signals

Conflict signals occur when a dog experiences competing motivations.

For example, a dog may:

  • want attention but feel uncertain,
  • want food but feel uncomfortable with approach,
  • want interaction but fear the situation.

Signs of conflict may include:

  • hesitation,
  • mixed signals,
  • repeated looking away,
  • approaching and retreating,
  • sudden changes in behaviour.

Recognising conflict helps humans avoid placing dogs in situations where they feel trapped.

Supporting Appropriate Social Interactions

Humans can support positive canine communication by:

  • allowing choice,
  • respecting distance,
  • avoiding forced interactions,
  • recognising early signals,
  • providing predictable environments.

Dogs should not be expected to tolerate every interaction.

A socially skilled dog is not one that accepts everything. A socially skilled dog is one that can communicate effectively and cope appropriately within its environment.

Common Human Misinterpretations

“The dog is ignoring me.”

A dog looking away or moving away may be communicating discomfort rather than ignoring.

“The dog needs to learn who is in charge.”

Many social behaviours are not about dominance. They are communication about emotional state and environmental factors.

“The dog just needs more exposure.”

Forced exposure can increase fear and reduce trust. Positive experiences and appropriate pacing are essential.

Key Practice Principle

Dogs communicate continuously through their social behaviours.

Approach, avoidance, distance, movement and subtle signals all provide information about how a dog is experiencing an interaction.

Understanding social communication allows humans to prevent conflict, respect boundaries and create relationships based on trust rather than control.

The most effective human–dog interactions occur when humans listen to what dogs are communicating and respond appropriately.